Mirroring, which is a technique used to help strengthen a relationship between two people, helps the other person feel heard, even when they are feeling uncomfortable. However, we need to have a subtle and meticulous observation not only in words, voices, and behaviors but also in the situation of the other person in order to be able to accurately capture the emotions of the other person's feelings and respond appropriately. Conversely, if you do it openly, the other person may find out that you did it on purpose, and they may feel mocked instead of sympathetic. In addition, we should not reflect on a person's personal characteristics, as that will make them angry.

"Mirroring" is an effective method of communication, but in the end, it is just a technique to aid in communication. It cannot make a lasting relationship, which only sincere love can do. And to make the most of this technique, with the exception of meticulousness and judgment, you should often make eye contact and nod your head in response to their words. Eye contact should not be too little as it will make you look awkward and unnatural, but too much can put pressure on the other person. And nodding will make them encouraged and become happier because of their words.

#Tugney, 15/11/2022